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    No one enters into marriage (or any modern variation on a long-term committed relationship) intending it to end. No one thinks that will happen to them.

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    Give yourself a personality workout. It's these kind of characteristics far more than "interests in common" that make a couple compatible.

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    Successful Marriage Key 2 - Learn Each Other's Language.

    It has been said that only 7% of communication is verbal. The old chestnut of "my wife doesn't understand me" - the almost cartoon excuse for an extra-marital affair - isn't going to wash in the twenty first century.

    The main reason that couples don't understand each other is because they don't know each other's language. I'm not talking about what you say in words.

    You each will have codes. Facial expressions, tones of voice and of course, codes of conduct. These are behaviours each of you will have grown up with. I know of at least one couple whose marriage suffered badly in the early days because whenever they argued the wife would leave the room, whilst the husband was yelling "Don't you dare walk out on me!"

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    Successful Marriage Key 3 - Dare to be honest.

    It sounds simple but this can be the toughest one of all because every one of us has fears that if "you knew X about me, you wouldn't like me."

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    But the more you are prepared to "psychologically unpack" with your nearest and dearest, the more you'll build up trust between you, but there's a much more important result to this.

    You'll feel more loved, because you'll discover that the parts of you that you yourself had thought unacceptable Brock Nelson Jersey , even unlovable, are now accepted and cherished as part of you by the person who matters to you most.

    In return, you'll love her or him all the more for loving you.

    Now who'd want to leave a marriage like that?
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